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"From the first session, I was getting insights into my own patterns that I’ve never considered before... Growing into Greatness has really helped me to get clear on what’s holding me back and what I need to work on. I liked it so much, I’m starting to listen to the course a second time!" I just wanted to write and say I’m so glad I took the chance and downloaded this course! I didn’t know what to expect, but I wasn’t expecting to get the volume, quality or diversity of information that you provide and presented in such a personal way. From the first session, I was getting insights into my own patterns that I’ve never considered before. Growing into Greatness has really helped me to get clear on what’s holding me back and what I need to work on. I liked it so much, I’m starting to listen to the course a second time! Thanks for sharing your experience and compiling a diverse amount of information into a seamless, invaluable series that’s accessible and affordable. Worth every penny. Karen Black |
At this point, I'm sure you're wondering who I am, so let me introduce myself and share with you why I'm doing this.
My name is Cynthia Barlow and over the past twenty years I have been conducting workshops, seminars and retreats that have inspired thousands of people from all walks of life to make the necessary changes to improve the quality of their lives. With a proven and personalized approach, I've helped define and reshape my clients' lives.
I want to reveal something to you: I wasn’t always an inspirational, successful leader. More than 20 years ago I was married to a CEO, the mother of two sons, living the “picture-perfect life”, but that was the farthest thing from the truth. I had been a Buyer for a major US retail chain, an Operations Manager for a publishing company, and I worked at a consulting firm, but inside I felt like a fraud both personally and professionally. I began to realize I wasn’t happy with my life – or myself.
Back in the 70’s I started taking courses to help me learn some news ways of dealing with life’s stressors. Over the years, with a combination of a slew of experiential programs as well as therapy, years of self-observation, pattern replacement practice and my own self-learning I went to work for one of the leading human empowerment companies.
I had led countless self-development classes and I worked with this firm for 8 years. I became their top program leader and developed the Ontario region for them in the early 90’s. However, the more successful I became, the more I was privy to the inner workings of the people who ran the company. Increasingly I noticed the double standard – they didn't practice what they preached. Though it was a financial sacrifice, I left the company and formed my own, Constellation Learning, in 1997.
And now, here I am, leader of a company that was built from the ground up with passion, persistence and trust in a vision. A vision of a world where every single person can lead a happy, contented, peaceful life with purpose and joy, elegance and grace. A place of authenticity where wearing masks in order to feel acceptable would no longer be needed.
I had watched too many friends, family and co-workers repeat self-destructive patterns and wanted to provide a new kind of foundation that didn’t require a radical removal of all that felt comfortable and known to them.
Since I work so intimately with people in my courses, I am privileged to get to really know them well. Their trust and honesty have helped me to synthesize all my learnings into an approach that helps people learn more about themselves - why they feel what they feel and why they do what they do.
Interestingly, paradoxically, coincidentally (for those of you that have done some learning already you'll know there are no coincidences) about two and a half years ago I was severely affected both physically, intellectually and emotionally by carbon monoxide poisoning in my own home. I tell a portion of the story in this program but I want to share some of it with you now.
For several days, I was under the effects of a slow but deadly carbon monoxide leak from a faulty furnace. I became delusional, sick, incapacitated, before being rescued and taken to hospital. I spent several days recovering in hyper-baric chambers and undergoing other treatments to help flush the toxins out of my body. The prognosis didn't look good. Doctors weren't sure if I'd ever fully recover. The possibility of brain damage was quite real.
BRAIN DAMAGE? I had relied on my wits, my intellect, my analytical abilities my whole life....how would I live? The fact that I was alive was hardly enough to reconcile how I felt. I felt sick, tired, foggy-headed, upset and angry at the entire world.
As the weeks passed and I began my process of healing and recovery, I started noticing that my linguistic abilities, which were always one of my greatest strengths, had diminished significantly. I couldn't speak as fluidly as before. Physically, I couldn't even make it up a flight of stairs. Also, here's the biggest paradox, I was an emotional wreck. My own emotions were out of control. Feelings I hadn't experienced in many years were ever-present. The slightest thing would set me off. Life was not just hard to handle - it was excruciatingly frustrating!
How was I supposed to find the 'pearl' in that situation?
It was now time for me to revisit everything I had learned over the years about emotions, life, spirituality - everything I was teaching for over 20 years. I became my own coach after decades of coaching others and slowly but surely applied the core principles, methods, and teachings to my own situation. I concentrated on reassembling my own emotional wiring so that my feelings would once again learn to 'heel' to my will, not the other way around.
I made the choice to recover. I made the choice to make my life better. I was here for a reason. I had a purpose. I reexamined my priority list and a lot of things have shifted.
Now, instead of thinking what a new client may bring to me, or what a new speaking engagement could do for my business - the focus has shifted. I now, with full love in my heart, think "what can this gig do for them?" and I continually look for ways that I can now serve others better. Freely, joyfully, lovingly.
This series is a result of that endeavor and I hope to touch a lot of lives. The pearls of all my work over the past 20+ years are contained in this cutting-edge e-series that delivers what it promises: positive, long-term, sustained change.
"I
strongly recommend the audio series 'Mastering Your Emotions'
to anyone who is making a choice to more fully master their emotions,
have a sense of balance in their lives, and be more at peace with
"Having implemented Cynthia’s course concepts for a decade, I feel that my life is more fully alive and I am focused on the outcomes that bring me fulfillment and happiness. The audio series has challenged me to explore how I see, experience, and interpret reality. I have most appreciated the common sense, authenticity and realness in Cynthia's stories as they were always filled with great learnings and wisdom for every day situations arising with my family or my work. I strongly recommend the audio series 'Mastering
Your Emotions' to anyone who is making a choice to more fully
master their emotions, have a sense of balance in their lives,
and be more at peace with the choices they are making ... John Sweetnam |
Before I discuss the details of the Mastering Your Emotions audio course and workbook, let me answer a few questions I think you might be asking yourself right now.
What’s so great about being great?
You know you want to be a "brighter" version of yourself - to "turn up" the volume on your potential. Besides, you were born great! We all were. Greatness is everyone's spiritual inheritance. But, we're trained to cover it up, bury it, hide it from the world by those who only wanted to protect us - our parents - our teachers - our friends.
So what is “GREATNESS” really? I'll start with what greatness isn’t.
Greatness isn’t necessarily about your position, your bank account, or the number of people you know. And it certainly isn’t about the car you drive or the clothes you wear. Armani suits mean nothing in the realm of greatness. Neither does a million dollars, though both are nice. Greatness isn’t about what you do or on how large a scale you do it; it’s about who you are and the way people feel in your presence.
Sometimes, great people do things on a big scale: Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Oprah come to mind. But sometimes it’s on a smaller scale. Annie Sullivan, who was Helen Keller’s teacher, helped only one woman break out of her physical imprisonment, one who was able to shed her light on the whole world. Annie Sullivan rose above her own challenges - orphaned and legally blind - and went on to make a great contribution to the world, by helping one other person. Annie Sullivan was a great woman.
Long ago I led a series of classes where the purpose was “to grow into yourself.” I always liked that notion - of becoming completely comfortable in your skin. How many people do you know who are completely comfortable in their own skin? How about you? An awful lot of us play the comparison game and come up woefully short according to our perfectionist grading scale.
Nowadays the term, “he/she’s full of herself” has taken on a derogatory tone. But I ask you, who do you want to be full of - somebody else? No thanks. Even with all my own faults and foibles, I’d rather be full of me than the countless other people I once tried to imitate and fill myself with over the years. The problem with imitation is that eventually, whatever is under the surface will come out.
That’s the thing: you can’t grow into yourself imitating what other people DO. You can only become great by growing into BEING the best YOU possible. And that takes a certain amount of self-awareness and knowledge - and courage.
"Cynthia is a skillful mentor and coach who assists you to grow and take the steps to move forward.... Each time I listen to her speak I make new distinctions and I am able to apply those insights to move forward more confidently in life." "Growing Intro Greatness: Mastering Your Emotions was wonderful to listen to and integrate /re-integrate information from the workshops I have attended. I enjoy listening to Cynthia speak and her sincerity comes through so clearly in this audio series. I've had the opportunity to attend Cynthia's workshops over the past 10 years. She is direct, honest, passionate, kind and funny. Cynthia takes difficult concepts and translates them into easy ones through her illustrations, analogies and real stories to assist those in her courses and in this audio series. She has made this journey of self discovery and awareness her career in life, and she encourages those of us with the desire of living a more fulfilled life to do the same. Cynthia is a skillful mentor and coach who assists you to grow and take the steps to move forward.I also appreciate her honesty in saying that discovering what we truly want, what truly makes us tick, and that growing into emotional self-mastery is a process. There is no end; we just keep becoming more and more aware of behaviours, emotions or ineffective responses that keep us from getting what we truly want in life. She guides you through this initial series to uncover those things that keep us from what we want – to look honestly at ourselves and the choices we make. Too many others in this area of self awareness and development attempt to provide you with quick fix methods or “how to’s”– yet they do not get you to that place of understanding and acknowledgement that allows one to have lasting change. Cindy’s teachings and her methods, assist you to get through those layers, take one step at a time and really grow. I am glad that Cindy has decided to record an audio series, similar to and yet enhancing upon her workshops. It is not always possible to attend workshops on a regular basis and to have access to her teachings available in the audio form allows me to revisit what she has taught and discover new meanings. Each time I listen to her speak, I make new distinctions and I am able to apply those insights to move forward more confidently in life." Thank you, Cheryl Helm |
Here’s what “greatness”
means to me and why I named this e-series
Growing Into Greatness:
Purity
of Intention +
Appropriate Action
Filtered Through YOUR Values =
GREATNESS
Someone we call “great” rises head and shoulders above the common man - in integrity, maturity, nobility of character, and service to humanity. A great person, though they might end up serving themselves, is not essentially self-serving; his/her intentional actions spring from a desire to help the “whole.” They may end up serving themselves too, but that’s not their primary motivation.
So How Do Emotions Play
a Part in Becoming Great?
How Can They Help You Become the Best You, You Can Be?
Your emotions - your feelings - fuel all the choices you make when you’re unaware of why you feel the way you do. And that unawareness, as you may already know, can get you into trouble.
Now, most of us, when we’re feeling happy, contented, at ease, know exactly why we feel good. That’s easy. Just got a raise? Had a baby? Got married? Well of course you can pinpoint why you feel good. And sometimes we know why we feel lousy - lost your job, had words with a friend, ended a relationship - but most times, most people have not a clue why they’re so upset about little things, especially in relationships.
You know the pain of having said something you regret to someone you love. Don’t you wish you could suck the words back in as soon as they escape your lips? But there you go and the damage is done. People may forgive, but they don’t forget. Not really.
"Anytime I feel stressed, angry or sad, listening to the series helps me to re-direct my thoughts in a more positive and productive way." I’ve had the opportunity to experience Cynthia and her ideas for living a great life through her courses. Her audio series "Mastering Your Emotions" is a great way to emphasize and remember all the concepts and words of wisdom she brings to your experience. Anytime I feel stressed, angry or sad, listening to the series helps me to re-direct my thoughts in a more positive and productive way. Changing the way I process my thoughts, changes the way I see myself, and other people I interact with. Ultimately it has resulted in a happier home and family life, a feeling of increased self-confidence and I am less stressed and more efficient in my workplace. This is what the Mastering Your Emotions experience is all about for me. Bonnie Hughes, |
Why would I want to master
my emotions?
How will that help me enjoy my life more?
Because the truly great have done so. They have shed light on the way to greatness through their lives. All great spiritual leaders have demonstrated emotional self-mastery. That’s why we admire them and hold them in high esteem: they “have their act together.”
The masters have figured out who they are and what’s truly important to them. Their lives reflect choices made from clear self-understanding. That’s why their emotions appear “under control.” It’s not that they don’t have internal emotional responses, it’s that they are able to decipher the meaning behind the emotion, and then choose effective external actions. They know how to “leash” their emotions.
Consider this analogy:
Mastering your emotions is like
training a dog to “Heel”.
Imagine the difference between a dog who walks calmly by your side and one who constantly strains at the end of the leash, dragging you all over the place. You want to go one way but that dog keeps pulling you in another direction, exerting constant tension as he pulls on the leash in front of you. All that tugging takes a lot of energy and it’s not much fun.
Your feelings of resentment and guilt, of frustration and anxiety, of loneliness and depression, to name a few, are the “dogs” in your life. Mastering your emotions—leashing them—is like teaching them to “heel.”
It does not mean you’ll never feel those feelings (the well-trained dog still wants to chase that squirrel, after all!), it simply means you’ll “train” them to not only obey you (instead of you obeying them) but also to lessen over time, until, one day you find you have “grown into yourself” and stepped into the quantum soup of never-ending possibilities.
You will grow into
your own greatness
when you forgive yourself for being human.
Mastering Your Emotions, the first program in the Growing Into Greatness series, is designed to walk you through the basic steps in the essential re-training of your errant “dogs” by developing an understanding of and compassion towards yourself. This understanding and compassion spills over into the lives of everyone around you.
You will become a brighter version of yourself, one less worn out by the never ending game of tug-of-war you played with yourself for so many years.
There Are No Instant Fix-Its!
Sorry to break the news to you: it takes lots of repetition before a dog responds the way you want him to under stressful situations. “Heel” takes time and practice. Especially if you go to a park where there are a lot of squirrels running around. (Consider the park your office or family of origin.)
For over two decades I’ve worked with thousands of people, coaching and teaching intense personal development programs. There is good news: There are practical, applicable methods for not only shortening the time it takes to teach that dog to heel, but also to actually enjoy the process, and those methods are all contained within this course!

Why Will This Particular Audio Course Help You?
Maybe you’ve read a couple of books and taken a couple of workshops but they haven’t helped you produce the sustained change you’re looking for. If your life is still basically the same then it’s probably not what you’re doing; it’s what you’re thinking that’s keeping you stuck.
The way you feel depends on the way you think, and the way you think and feel about any person, place, thing or event is determined by the way you perceive and then interpret raw data. And the way you view the situation is determined by the neurotransmitters that are firing off messages at warp speed inside you, moving you closer to or farther away from what you say you really want.
“New Ways of Viewing,
Lead To New Ways of Doing”
This series focuses on the way you “see” situations and the feelings they produce. In other words, the way you’re “wired.” It will help you make the connections you need to make in order to move forward into the kind of life you want - one where you feel in control of yourself and your future.
I congratulate you on taking the steps you have already taken. Arriving at this site and reading thus far is truly testimony to your interest in improving your life. The first steps towards personal mastery are indeed the hardest. Kudos!
Reading even one book is enough to be the catalyst for change. And for sustained change and lasting results, you need to ‘live’ what you’re reading about. You need to practice it every day. That’s what this series will do for you.
You may not have time or money to go to workshops and programs. You need to live your life. You don’t want to enter therapy or pay a coach and commit to working with them for months or years but you feel you need to do something.
I’m not going to knock any book or any program you’ve read and say theirs’ doesn’t work, mine is better. The program that works is the one you actually use, practice, demonstrate, apply, live and most importantly, the one you get positive results from when you do all these things!
I’ve put these teachings to the test with thousands of people and it works because they use it. It helps them apply the central lessons they’ve learned from books, programs, workshops, talks, articles, or their own ‘eureka’ moments. The energy you experience and carry with you while you’re engaged in the above is what life is all about.
For too many people, soon after they’re done the book or left the seminar, their energy begins to fade. If they don’t get a dose of positive, loving pure energy, where they become connected, aware and accountable for their life (the moments where everything in this universe is perfect) their energy and thinking patterns will go back to their default settings and things will return to “normal”, which is exactly what they don’t want!
By being exposed to the positive energy, the love, the connection for even 10-20 minutes a day, by keeping just one core principle of positive living in your focus, you will exponentially increase your learning and you’ll find more opportunities to apply and keep visiting this energy until that becomes your default setting - not “normal” but "GREAT!"
Mastering your Emotions is designed in a way that lets you take bite sized pieces of wisdom, integrating them into your thinking, thereby helping you gain awareness into ‘why you do what you do’.
The exercises are as important, if not more important than the lessons. Listening to the audio sessions will reinforce the accompanying workbook pages in a positive, supportive way.
You’ll get modules I do in my professional consulting, life coaching, and personal development programs that are worth hundreds to thousands of dollars per program. And, you’ll hear exactly how the content is meant to be delivered.
You’ll learn how to take a “negative” feeling, interpret it, discover what the feeling is attempting to communicate to you (from you, to you, for you!), and then be able to release it, allowing for new, more positive feelings to take the place of the detrimental ones that eat away at your self-confidence and inner peace.
You can move at your own pace. I recommend a lesson every other week. That gives you the necessary practice time to begin integrating new ways of synthesizing the data that bombards you daily. Discerning the “wheat from the chaff” is what this series is designed to help you do: diminish the negative, embellish the positive.
Mastering anything is a matter of practice. Want to learn a language or a sport? You take lessons. You get guidance or else you might end up practicing the wrong things that create future problems. Do you think Tiger Woods, Wayne Gretzky, Anna Kournikova skipped practice every day? Think about it.
Most of us learned to tuck away and hide our real feelings for fear of hurting someone else, or of being hurt ourselves. We learn how to pretend - to wear "masks" - to deny what we’re really feeling, and eventually we don’t even know exactly what we’re feeling, or why we’re feeling it. We only know we don’t like the way we feel much of the time.
If we don’t know what our sense of frustration is about, really, then how can we attempt to unwind ourselves? Like bound feet, we end up stunting our own growth.
Let me tell you something: When someone does something and you resent them for it (for example) it’s not about the other person. I so wish it was; believe me, my life would have been easier if it was, but it's always about you because you’re the one feeling the resentment.
The person or situation you resent is simply the squirrel that darted past your dog. And that dog yanked so hard on the leash it pulled you over. Sorry to be the bearer of more distressing news, but the way you feel - those dogs - are only messengers!
Once you know what your negative feelings are trying to communicate, once you “get the message” you won’t be yanked off your feet quite so easily. With time, patience, consistency, and a little guidance, that dog will learn to heel.
One of the world’s greatest psychologists, James Hillman, said, “Even in the sciences, whether under the microscope or through the telescope, one must have guidance in what to look for. Otherwise, you might be staring right at what you’re looking for and not know it.”
That’s what this course will do for you - provide you the guidance you must have if you want to master the most fascinating and difficult topic of all time: YOU.
What Will You Learn & How Will It Benefit You?
Uncover
the greatness within you yearning to break free from your own mental
& emotional prison;
Finally understand Why You Feel What You Feel so you can take control
of your emotions instead of letting them get the better of you;
Learn Why You Do What You Do - why you automatically react so
negatively to certain situations and how you perpetuate the fear and
anxiety you experience;
Start to make sense of your past and unravel the web of confusion and
self-defeating behaviour patterns you've experienced your whole life;
Foster better, more fulfilling relationships - starting with
yourself;
Forgive yourself for being human - stop being so hard on yourself and
realize how free and fun life can be when you're not punishing yourself
(and others) all the time
Stop being so angry and bitter all the time;
Learn why you've been afraid of certain situations your whole life and
easily overcome any obstacle you used to believe was standing in your
way from achieving what you want;
Find yourself able to focus and concentrate better when you
eliminate the incessant, negative mental chatter stopping you from enjoying
life;
Eliminate GUILT from your life completely when you are able to stop
doing the things you do that made you feel guilty in the first place;
Become free of Envy and Jealousy when you embrace your own greatness
and become empowered to do, be or have anything you desire;
Feel like a true winner and success by living your own purpose;
Stop destructive fighting in your relationships;
Learn to treat yourself and others more gently all the while reducing
stress and aggravation from your life;
Learn to stand up for yourself instead of being a doormat for everyone;
Stop procrastinating when you learn why you've used it as a way to keep
you from happiness your whole life;
Overcome sadness and even depression when you learn to end the
cycles of self-defeat and despair;
Finally, live a life full of peace, joy & happiness. This will work
for you!
Friends, as you can see, I can keep going on an on about all you have to gain from Mastering your Emotions but I will stop here. A part of you already knows exactly what you have to gain. You can feel it inside you right now.
Just think - if you can overcome even just one of your life's greatest obstacles, what else could be possible in your life?
Let me now tell you a little about the program itself.
Mastering
Your Emotions:
Session 1: Your Perspective and How it Developed
Session 2: Comfort Zones
Session 3: Blockages
Session 4: Intention
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So, you're probably wondering - what's this going to cost me?
Over 4 hours of audio jam-packed with the necessary guidance you need to help you change your life for the better. Day after day as you work through the exercises in the workbook and crystalize the information you're learning you will begin to grow into your own greatness. Can you actually put a value on that? It isn't easy but with the help of my marketing partner and my faithful list of product testers, we've come up with a value of $197. That's less than $50 per module. Far less than you'd pay for just one coaching session and much less than attending one of my workshops or retreats.
But I'm not going to sell it for $197
or even $147. I want to help as many people as possible so I've
decided to price it at only $97 for the downloadable-only
version and $117 for the downloadable version plus
MP3 CD (includes delivery to anywhere in North America). That's
affordable and it still maintains the integrity and value of all the
pearls of wisdom contained in this series. Others have paid thousands
to hear these words...
Plus,
as a bonus, you'll also get an hour's worth of Tai
Chi audio lessons to help you start your day on the right foot.
It's valued at $27 - your's free.
I've never before released this helpful product and you can't get it anywhere else except when you order Mastering Your Emotions!
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If you're not completely satisfied within 90 days, which is definitely long enough to listen to the entire program (a few times) and begin applying the pearls of wisdom within to your life, for whatever reason, and you want your money back, just send me an email telling me so and I'll refund every penny immediately! No questions asked.
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